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| Ever feel like you're just biding your time? I just got out of a 8yr relationship where I feel like I gave up too soon. I live with all the blame & regret for that loss. I promised myself to never do that again. BUT how much do I put up w/ from my new guy? How many times do I have to forgive him, and how many times to I have to stand up for myself?! I tell him how disrespected & unequal he treats me, I remind him of my boundaries = a blow up every time. FED UP! All I ask is to be treated as an equal and w/ respect. IS THAT SO MUCH TO ASK?! RLY? |
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| Why do you think that you are not deserving of a loving and respectful relationship? Don't have a life of regrets, find someone that cherishes your love, they are out there. I know 8 yrs is a long time, but it is better that 18 yrs. |
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| Good for you!!! You had the strength to leave. Give yourself time to heal, take care of yourself and don't accept anything less than love and respect. The first sign of disrespect, run and don't look back. |
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| Men have a way of making us feel like everything is our fault. They are the turn around kings. Everything I have a complaint about, my guy turns it around on me. I feel like I have lost my mind. You are not alone, just be happy that you are away from this guy and have a new chance of being happy. Know you know what you don't want! |
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| Lemme tell you something: yep, it is too much to ask, if you have to ask for it. Any relation where one of the partners has top ask for being treated in equity terms of respect, is a toxic relation basically. And you will never will get that if things are so that you have to ask and fight for it.
Now, you have answered yourself: how many times do yo have to forgive and fight? Well, just till you are really fed up. Once you feel you are really fed up of it, there's nothing better to do than to lift the camp, the sooner the better. |
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| With you there lindamae.......... |
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