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| I really need an opinion, been with this guy for 7yrs. have a 10 month old baby boy. He is not working with no intention of looking for work. We now live with his parents w/no privacy and to top it off we are of religious background and recently have been planning a weeding. It turns out that he now claims to be an Atheist and doesn't want to get married. Whats that about? I am extremely overwhelmed because I am sick and tired of taking care of him and of living with my in laws.. What shall I do? Is he playing me?
Maybe cheating? Help... |
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| Please, Please!!! You are still young. Do not ruin your life with this man. I have been in your shoes and I was young, dumb and idealistic. I thought if we got married everything would be ok. I was wrong, it got worse. Think about if you had a daughter and she was in this situation, you would tell her to not waste her time on this guy. I know you are probably really scared and confused because know you have another person to worry about, your son. But you can survive, find a roommate, do whatever you have to do, but don't marry someone that does not want to work and take care of you and your child. You are going to be okay. Think about the long term consequences. |
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| I have to agree with " Sadinflorida" you need to really think of your future with this guy. Will his parents help you with your son? |
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| You have to ask yourself, what do I have to do to make this man change,? The answer NOTHING!! Men don't change, they just get worse over time. Don't waste your life waiting for this man to do the right thing, it is obvious that he has a lot of growing up to do, but don't stick around waiting for him to do the right thing and be responsible, because you and your child deserve better. |
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| Do you have a support group to help you leave this guy? You need to make a home for your son without this man. Maybe if you leave he will grow up. |
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| LEAVE THIS GUY. HE DOES NOT APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE GIVEN HIM.. MOST MEN WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A SON AND WOMAN WHO LOVES HIM. HE IS CRAZY IF HE DOES NOT SEE HOW WONDERFUL HIS LIFE IS! FIND SOMEONE WHO DOES. |
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| What does your gut tell you about your future with this man? Don't get comfortable and settle with him when you have you whole life in front of you. |
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| This guy is being babied by his parents. They need to make him be responsible. It is not helping anyone by them allowing their son to live under their roof and not take care of you and your child. |
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| My opinion is help your baby by going out and getting your own money and DO NOT give it him. Save it, because it is obvious that you might need it one day. |
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| What does he do all day? Why doesn't his parents make him pay for rent and the money they receive they should secretly give to you! |
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