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| My boyfriend Dean always goes out with his friends. They stay out until 2 am on weekdays and sometimes till 5 am on weekends. He leaves me alone all the time. He treats me like a dog, worse than a dog. I cook for him, clean our apartment, wash his cloths and don't ask him for much. I feel like his doormat. I feel so lonely. Why is he treating me this way? Why is he so selfish? |
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| He treats you like crap because you let him! |
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| If you stop putting up with his selfish treatment, he will stop treating you like a dog. LOVE YOURSELF and stop being a door mat. |
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| STICK UP FOR YOURSELF, STOP BEING HIS MAID, ETC. |
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| Ask yourself, WHY am I staying with him? |
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| He's loser and you are more of a loser for staying with him. |
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| If you think he's going to change, he not. He's not worth one more minute of your time. |
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| Leave now! Right Now, put the mop down and walk out. |
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| Leave this guy now, it will not get any better. |
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| If he is not going out with you than he is not worth having around. |
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| I've been in a similar position,& learned from experience. SPEAK UP! Tell him that when he leaves you like that, you feel _____. If you choose not to discuss this it will lead to resentment & contempt for him. You'll snap. As for the house- I say decide if you're being too picky. If not then if you just ask him to do ____ & you'll do _____ he'll pry do it. But if you expect him not to care, then he'll expect you to keep doing everything. You're in the same boat. |
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