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| I have been married for about 6yrs to my husband. About 4yrs ago we were constantly arguing and it was always about sex. I finally told him to find someone else to do it with, and he did. He had an affair with her for 2 years even fathered a child with her, while I was pregnant with our son. I forgave him, but I cant forget. It's been almost 2 yrs since the whole thing. I have such a hard time making love to him. I can't get the image of him with her out of my head and it's slowly driving me mad. What do I do? I have no one to talk |
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| Wow, I can only imagine how sad you must be, you are in a relationship with someone you don't trust. Once a woman loses trust, it is hard to gain it back. I don't think you will ever forgive him or have the ability to give him your heart again. |
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| I have also experienced the same issue about arguing about sex all the time. It is all he talks about and what he lives for. If he does not get it, my life will be hell, so I just give it up to make him happy so my life is so called normal. Your situation unfortunately has long lasting result, you have a kid and she has a kid, you are constantly reminded of what has happened to you. Why are you still there, you need to move on with your life and find someone who is more normal about sex. I know it is easy said than done, but life is short and why deal with this pain? |
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| I can image how you must feel having sex with him. His betrayal cuts deep. Find someone that will love and cherish you. He does not deserve the family situation that you provide. |
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| Leave him before he hurts you again. He is a Jerk and you should not subject yourself to his BS. |
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| How can a man treat his wife with such disrespect, especially the mother of his child. This man needs to grow up! |
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| Find someone else who will be a better role model for your son! |
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| I could not make love to him either because when trust is gone, so goes the love. In your heart you know what you need to do. |
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| This is so messed up, he should be kissing your ass for even considering going back to him, let alone stay with him. |
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| I had a longtime boyfriend like that and my life was always miserable, because if I said no, I knew we going to be in a fight. We only had a nice day if we had sex, it would be a bad day if I did not feel good etc. I was never able to be sick and say no, because he would think I was lying about being sick to get out of having sex. My life sucked. I am so happy to be out of that insane relationship. Think about about your future and how much longer you want to hang on to this guy and his sickness. |
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| I bet you he is a porn addict too. I have been in one of those relationships. It will get crazier and crazier. |
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| Wow, how do you sleep with his deceit? I would seek counseling with him if you want to make it work. |
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| He does not deserve your love and attention, get some balls and do what you have to do!!! |
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| This is not an easy situation to be in, because forever you are going to be constantly reminded of hid infidelity. I would think about the future with this man. You will always have a tie with this man because of your child, but only you can stop the pain. Good Luck. |
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| Love yourself and your child and find a new life that does not include him. |
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| His sex addiction will only get worse with age. Trust me I know first hand,,,,,, |
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