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| It sounds like you are dating 2 losers.. Why are you setting yourself up for failure. |
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on 2007-06-12 00:07:44 by ok2be |
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| HELLO.. It sounds like you can pick him. Why are you leaving one loser for the next loser.. These two losers are not the only guys in the world. Look for a better loser. There are several degrees of losers and it sounds like you picked the bottem of the barrel. |
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on 2007-06-12 00:17:23 by meme38 |
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| Dear giveitup;
You go to the movies and on the big screen there is a part where the man is shown cheating on his wife, comes home and verbally assults her while adding a little pushing, shoving etc.
Are you comfortable with the scene, are you a little angry at the man? At the woman for putting up with it? Does numerous reactions from the viewers indicate that the man's actions are not acceptable? Answer all questions honestly and put yourself in the actresses role. What do you feel? Unless you reply, like in another famous movie (Network), "I'm Mad as Hell and I'm not going to take it anymore!!!" you have serious problems/issues. Let's see, Loser Ex, Loser Husband, Loser childhood (probably due to Loser Mom,Dad,Family), Loser actions like drugs, infedelity (all parties)irresponsibility, Loser environment for your children. Have feelings of "Love" while subjected to all forms of abuse and you ask "Am I setting myself up" May I recommend three actions before you make Any decisions, for yourself and/or children.
1) Professional counseling
2) Professional Counseling
3) Professional counseling.
Do you detect a pattern toward your road to better days for you? The other posts here are giving you good questions to think about and answer honestly to yourself. |
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on 2007-06-12 01:30:09 by |
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| Life is Hard... to me you make it what it is. You deserve more. Instead of falling into someone elses arms I would put everything on hold besides yourself. You need time alone, make changes and adventure to see what else is out there when the time is right. Be patient. As for the ex-boyfriend I am not saying for you to not follow your heart. But, give that time and work on small steps. You must build a porch before you build a home. People change I do understand but let him prove it. Men love nothing more if you are mysterious. Try it:) For example never pick up for every beckon call. I know you get butterflies and feel like you can do a backflip but put that to aside and be patient. Make him chase a little and wonder. He will want you more. If you dont they will walk all over you. Women and Men are so different, but sometimes you have to know the keys to making him want you more. I would definately get away from your husband. Having yourself hurt everyday is not healthy. Of course I am not around or know you two but you need to be happy. There is so much more to life than men to fully understand that you have to do what makes you happy. There is plenty of men out there-one is bound to make you happy. Time and patience will tell. |
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| Missagent you have such great advice. I agree with everythig you said. We should not set our lives up to depend on men, than we can be independant and find a man that we want, not a man that we need. |
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| Everyone, thanks for the advice. Especially Missagent, I really appreciate your words. |
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| I would think about not having a man in your life for a while and stop and figure out who you are first. |
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| Why do you let someone treat you so madly? You first have to love yourself. Love yourself first and then look for a healthy man for a healthy relationship. |
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| If you want to date losers, I know a few i can set you up with. Really stop repeating your mistakes with men. find a nice one.. they are out there. you just have to LOOK.. :-) |
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| Go run away with your ex. Your husband sounds like a real prick, no offence. |
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