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| I don't know what to do. My husband treats me like a second class citizen. I work all day. I have a 3 hour roundtrip commute. When I get home he is sitting on the couch waiting for me to make dinner. I am like his slave. His father lives with us and I am expected to take care of him also. I am so sick of all of them, but what do I do? They are the only family/ friends I know? |
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| Your job probably has you sit all day in nice cold air conditioning while listening to jazz in the office background, a no stress and little use/need for brain cells. Your Hubby probably has to use great mental and physical qualities to bring home the bacon for you. That's why he is recouping on the couch. When you married him, and no gun was placed on your temple at the time, you also married his family. If the shoe were on the other foot, he would have no issues taking care of your Daddy. With today's great modern kitchen gadgets and so many cooking shows on cable I'm sure it would only take you a few minutes to prepare a nice meal. It takes you five times longer to decide what pair of black shoes to wear for the commute, Deep Black, or Morbid Black, or Funeral Black, or Brillient Black, or Black Black. If you didn't have these great men in your life you'd still would have to commute but instead you'd be coming home to a cold lonely house and have to feed the eight cats you'd live with. Now show some much needed appreciation and stop thinking about yourself so much. Give your Hubby some "Loving" and cook him a nice meal. |
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on 2007-06-09 17:00:47 by frank |
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| Frank, I would love to agree with you, but I don't and thank God I am not married to a guy like YOU!!!! Sacha's husband is inconsiderate and he should help more with the household and maybe their relationship will be something she will look forward to on the way home. |
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on 2007-06-09 17:50:43 by jodie9 |
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| Frank, you give the "good men" out there a bad name. You probably sit your fat ass on the couch and let your women bring home the bacon. |
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| Frank, read my username..get the picture. |
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| Frank, you are a DH. This guy is a loser. He needs to get a life. It is matter of time that she leaves his lazy ass and finds a new guy that will appreciate her. |
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| You should talk to your husband and let him know how you feel, if his behavior continues then I would seek psychiatric advice. If then he dosen't straighten up, I would kick him to the curb along with his father. |
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on 2007-06-09 21:51:50 by meme38 |
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| If I did that to my wife, she would kick me and my father's ass out the door and take my house, my dog, my car, my money, etc. Get rid of that LOSER!!!!! |
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| I would never work if my husband didn't help me. Why do you take care of his father, he should take responsibility for his own family. I could see you helping out, but only if your husband meets you half way. Sounds like a fat jerk to me. |
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on 2007-06-09 23:39:12 by lulu |
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| Personally, I would never ever be with a man unless he is paying for everything. I mean everything. If I am spending my precious time and giving him what he wants in bed, he has to pay. He will appreciate you more if you put him in his place. You appear to be his door mat that he walks all over. Get some balls and tell that male chavinist that you are not taking his crap anymore. Tell him you are moving out and moving up. |
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| Oh I forgot to tell you, make sure if you move out, consult your attorney first, because you want to make sure you get the house and all his belongings. |
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| If you ask me your husband maybe family, but he is not your friend. I would start looking for a boyfriend. Maybe when your husband finds out about your new boyfriend he might stop taking you for granted, and show you a liitle respect. |
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| i dont think getting another man in the picture is a good idea it may help but the trust will be hard to get back. well i am having problems of my own my husband is a big. i get home after him and the house is a mess and he is playing xbox. |
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| I agree getting a boyfriend would not be the right answer. Try to fix this realtionship if it is worth fixing, then move on it you have too. |
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| Your husband sounds like a selfish jerk!!! Tell him to get a life and help you!! Because if he dosen't, you will find someone who will!! |
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