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| Signs of mistrust were every where and I kept a blind eye. I questioned things, but he always had a an answer for everything. I moved here to get away from a relationship gone bad. I had been hurt a lot, and thought I could find refuge in my best friend. I was still in love with him and he knew it. He said he had been divorced. Things did not add up. I found he was seeing another woman a month after I had gotten to his place and was not able to tell me even though we were intimate. We moved passed that. He stopped seeing her.
Months later, I found he was still married. I had given him so many opportunities to tell the truth. I found out from his wife. He still tried to deny it. He was my best friend. Now, I can no longer trust him. |
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| That is so sad. Why does he keep lying? Is it because he has kids? |
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on 2007-06-07 21:58:13 by jodie9 |
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| You should not beat yourself up. When we are in love we all want to believe that everything our love says is true. We have all been in your shoes. |
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on 2007-06-08 02:16:25 by pinky |
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| He must love you if he is trying so hard to be with. Have you asked him why he was lying to you? If he was your best friend, he also has to be feeling very sad not to have you around. |
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on 2007-06-08 04:56:13 by Juliet |
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| I went through the same thing. The wife found out and he ended up staying with her. He tried to keep me with all his lies. I was totally devastated. I could never trust him again!!! The relationship would have never been the same if I would have stayed with him. About 6 months later I met someone else. We are now married and everyday I thank God, that I did not stay with the Liar, cheater.
I know you are hurting now and the last thing you want to think about is finding someone else, but life moves on and you will too. And when you meet someone new, you will thank God too. |
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| This guy sounds like he is playing the field. It sounds like he has played you, the wife and the girl he was seeing before. You need to run as fast as you can to get away from this guy.
One of my good friends went through the same thing. I sat back and watched the whole thing. I told her over and over that he was a lying cheat, but when us girls are in love we put blinders on and don't want to see the truth, and in the long run we always pay a price in the name of love. |
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| It sounds like your guy can not commit and the chase of getting a women is more important than a long term loving relationship. Find a guy that can give you what you need instead of living with a liar and a cheater. It is better that you found out know than later. |
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on 2007-06-09 22:00:43 by meme38 |
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| Sounds like your guy is a lying loser too. I am sure you look 10X better than him. Find another guy that you can trust. |
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| Get rid of this jerk.. Don't waste one more tear on him. You can find someone better and that would be the sweetest revenge. :-) |
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on 2007-06-09 23:42:25 by lulu |
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| The best advice I can give you is to act like you don't care. Don't call him, even if it kills you. He expects you to come back crawling on your knees. DON'T!!! He will freak out and his ego will be crushed. |
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| Just be thankful that you found out about his lies before you married and had kids with him.. |
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