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| I met a really great seeming guy in a coffee shop. he was one of the employees of the store so of course he was on his best behavior. something about him or maybe that hours before a different guy wanted to make out with me made me really attracted to him. I don't think i was every more attracted to a guy before. so much that it hurt. we exchanged email addresses and then wrote back and forth. I had mixed feelings when we emailed but still strong enough feelings that i wanted to go out on a real date with him. then i decided to ask him for his phone number so i could ask him out on a date. It took a lot of guts for me to ask him. It's been 5 days and i still didn't hear from him. I am so upset that he has not responded. i feel like he told me no but he didn't say anything. I don't know what to do. On one hand he seems like a great guy on the other the emotional suffering that he has caused me really hurt and I don't want to feel like this when ever he turns me down or doesn't write. I think that he shouldn't treat a girl like this but i want to give him a chance. I should move on but i can't. |
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| I have to agree, it is best to not chase a man. I know this is hard sometimes, because we as woman want to make it easy for a man. We tell ourselves that "maybe he is scared to ask me out and i will just make it easy for him," don't make that mistake, if a man wants to be with you, the mountains and the earth will not stop him if he thinks he has a chance. So don't lower your value by making the first move.
I would not take this personal with guy, it is probably the best thing that it does not work out for you, because there is someone that is better for you out there.
But a little advice, don't give yourself so freely to a man, make him work a little for you, don't make out with him before he makes an inveatment in you, like a movie or dinner. Don't sleep with them either, get to know them better before you give up your body and heart. They will respect you so much more if they have to try a little bit to get your attention.
I think you will be okay. Don't call or contact him. Let it go. You will feel so much better in the long run! |
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| I would ignore him. He ia playing games and has not respected your feelings. The best thing to do is " Don't let him see you sweat."
We always seem to like the guys that are hard to get. His silence is making you crazy. It would also make me nuts too. But DO NOT give him the satifaction of chasing him. I know you feel that he is the one for you, but ask yourself, if he is so wonderful why would he treat anyone this way.
Take some advice because i have been in your shoes, do not ask any guy out. They want to do thr chasing. It is a big mistake to make the first move. Good Luck!! |
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on 2009-01-21 12:56:12 by pinky |
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| No, he does not deserve another chance!! |
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| What happened did you ever contact him again? |
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