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| Well i'm 17 years old and i used to go to a private school and live with my parents. Since it was an all girls school there were never any guys. One day some boys ran through the gym naked just to be funny and one caught my eye. He started following me around and we started dating and became offical boyfriend and girlfriend. Sometimes i was really happy sometimes i felt miserable. He's one of those guys that makes you feel like everything is your fault. Like when i didn't have sex with him he made me feel like i was the bad person not him until i gave in. I look really happy around my friends because i'm afraid of what he'll do behind curtains. Now i'm pregnant and he thinks i'm his property and so is my baby. My parents disapproved of me dating him from day one and now they refuse to help. So now i sit in his apartment and cater to him. All he does is go to work and come back home to yell at me about hard he works for no reward at the end of the day. I dont want this and i dont want my baby to see this which is why i'm asking for advice |
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| Oh, snap. Sounds like you're in a tricky situation. These kinds of guys are VERY dangerous because they have very good ways of controlling you. They also normally have deep personal issues relating to their mothers! You're seventeen and you need to remember that your FAMILY has always been there for you, and they're more important than some stupid manipulative boy, there are, after all, plenty more fish in the sea.
My advice is to LEAVE his mean ass and go home to your mom and dad. They love you way more than him. |
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| FInd your self confidence, men treat woman badly only if they know they can get away with it. I'm ready now to fall on my face, I've woken up from the dead and I have a wonderful relationship with Jesus. You need to seek Jesus, seek his kingdom and the rest fall into place, It starts with prayer and repent and God and the Son Do Listen and hear. I love my journey I'm on and I don't know about you but God always seems to use my weekness to BECOME my STRENGTH. I'm so shocked at some of the things I can do now because of the trinity. Give yourselves unto the Lord and what a journey you will start to receive. It takes work and it's not easy but don't give up. So that is my advice. |
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on 2008-07-05 11:16:51 by kimmy |
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| I dont know how morally correct this is going to sound but please bear with me...
take a decision if you want to have this baby abortion could be an option. Maybe even your parents will help you on that one
if thats not an option please love yourself, talk first understand to be understood and if he doesnt change im sure your parents will take you back.
Now if he really needs a shake up you could tell him that you are going to give the baby for adoption if he does not change
please take all this with a big big filter and do whats right for you |
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on 2008-07-10 03:54:44 by tango |
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| Hey, you're in a tough situation. Clearly this guy is not good for you - you need to do some soul searching to try to figure out why you're attracted to him. Many people are attracted to certain types of people based on the trauma they experienced as they grew up. Was your dad controlling or abusive? Now you may be attracted to guys who are controlling/abusive. The best bet is to try to go get your own stuff in order - get a job, earn some money, support yourself, get your own life in order and then the rest will fall together. |
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on 2008-07-10 15:46:38 by slo |
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