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| I have been dating this guy for about 1 1/2 and I am getting fed up with him. I knew he was a little immature at the beginning but who isn't, I am only 22 got to have fun sometimes. But now he is starting to show his ass. First it was is ex-girlfriend calling constantly made me so MAD, then I let him smoke in my car (which I don't smoke) but he begged and being the nice person that I am I let him. Unbelieveably he burned a gigantic whole in my back seat he says " I didn't realize the back window was open. Its been almost 3 weeks and still has not paid me my 185 dollars (that was a really expensive cigarette). After that it was the drinking! We went to the club with a few of his friends and he got totally drunk and we got kicked out only after 3 hours!!! Its like he can't go out and just have a 1 or 2 drinks, He has to make a fool out of himself. Then we went to a football game and did the same thing. And everytime I come home he is smoking pot and complaining about his day everyday. Its like having Oprah at 5. I am thinking to myself, whooptie doo. Everyone has got to work not just you! and last but not least that really pissed me off, I went out for a girls night out and then I found out that he got on the internet and paid to look at porn sites. He even tried to even talk to some hooker in our area. I am getting so fed up! Then is he says "Baby I will stop, don't leave me, I need you." and trys to be all nice to me. Like all the other times. Oh did I mention he has a bad temper, Always yelling about stupid shit. Its just a cycle that I would like to break, but I constantly want to give him another chance. What to do? |
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| You ask "What to do?".....leave him plain and simple. It sounds like you are about done with him as it is and he has 0 respect for you except as a play toy (speaking from a guy's point of view here).
He says "I need you" but what he should be asking is "what can I do to keep you happy". He is not showing any initiative and frankly he may drag you down with him to hell knows where.
At 22 you have a long list of decent guys waiting to date you....drop the loser and become your own woman. |
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| Well my mom dated a guy like that and we could never find him when it went dark out...I never for gave him for what he put my mother through but he got better...WHat I mean is my mother wastd most of her savings and life on that guy and he got better but she deserved better and so do you...But if you really wanna help him like my mom did there's nothing wrong with that |
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| As I was sitting in the Social Security office today to get my daughters benefits because her dad is such a loser, I thought to myself, because I married such a loser who cannot pay child support, I am sitting here for several hours waiting to get paid from the goverment.
You are YOUNG!!!! WHY ARE U MESSING UP YOUR LIFE SO EARLY????
Find a guy with a future...Don't make a mistake like me, if you do maybe one day you will be sitting next to me in the Social Security office.. |
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on 2007-08-29 15:40:10 by meme38 |
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| Since when did beggers get get what they want?
Yes, it looks like he is beginning to show you how it is gonna be.
Don't let the begging fool you. He needs you. He needs you to enable him.
Why do you want to give him a chance without results. No results, no change, no chance.
Do you live with him? Start planning your move out. But whatever you do don't end up at SSO.
So what do you really want to do? Vent or leave? |
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on 2007-08-29 16:42:26 by Addy |
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| Amen to "Addy" again..
This a relationship that is so co-dependant. Of course he needs you to be his mommy!!
Run as fast as you can!!! |
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| You cannot change him, PERIOD! Why are there so many woman who cannot "SEE" beyond the moment?! You're doing yourself (& what if you become pregnant?) & him a big diservice! Grow up & move on! Think about it! |
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| I totally agree, can you imagine if you got preganant, then you have to have this loser in your life forever.
Stop and think about the future with this guy!! |
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| He has a lot issues and you cannot change him.
He's giving you all the warning signs. |
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on 2007-08-30 11:01:35 by rozie |
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| Everybody is right on with this one. All I've got to say is that the sex must be off the hook for you to put up with that BS. So, that being said, I don't even know you and I can tell you that you can do better!!!! Do Better! |
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on 2007-08-30 17:21:13 by Tetva |
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| Tetva, once again you do not disappoint. You are too funny.
I cannot imagine sex with any guy is worth all this BS. |
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| You ask what to do??? It sounds like he has issues and once again, why do we ladies stay with men that won't respect us. There are nice, christain men and if they are not christain, some are still nice. You can't change him, and most important there are other fish in the sea.
Don't be so desperate to just settle. Have faith. Chin up and remember we are special. Also, if knows your going to take his ray of well say sunshine than why does he need to do anything differnt. take your hand do the qween wave and say Bye Bye now. |
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on 2007-09-02 08:28:15 by kimmy |
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