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| I went on the date with the new guy and it was the best. He has a son 3 and is in the army. He has a great sense of humor. We've been dating for about a week and he asked me to move in. me having no where to go said yes. While we were eating dinner the other night he asked me to marry him and I said yes. Is he moving to fast or me? i really like this guy but everything is blowing in my face. He ships out next week And so I don't want him to leave him with a bad mood going to Iraq. His kid even calls me mommy and the other night my daughter called him dada/ WHat am i to do? |
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| Are you crazy woman? I don't move in with someone in a week much less marry him. If I married everyone after a week I would have many annulments/divorces. Relationships take time and even after 6 months-a yr. you really need to make sure you are ready to commit to someone. Marriage is not meant to be taken litely & many people do, just look at the divorce rate. Pls. reconsider the living arrangment & if after time you think it's right, it will happen, don't rush. Everything happens for a reason. I will say a prayer for him in Iraq-good luck, hope he is the one & everything works out for you!!! Take care.... |
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| It is so nice to here that you are with this new guy. But why the marriage thing so quickly. You can live together without getting married. Even dating sounds better. Get to know before you make the big plunge!! |
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| Well he is the one moving to fast and YOU need to confront but in a very nice way and the reason he probablly is moving so fast is because he is shipping out and he wants to fufill that part of his life remember always follow your head not your heart because your heart is very disiving. I think you should watch army wives this is exactly what is happening to roxy watch it itll help you . |
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| he might be going too fast i mean living wth him and marraige in the span of about 2 weeks thats crazy.but he is in the army so when he meets a girl he wants to spend the rest of his life with time isnt one of those things he has a lot of for the time being. i say if you have such strong feelings for each other and both of your kids are happy why ruin that. GO FOR IT! trust me you dont want love to pass you by. |
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| Well you can look at it two ways...some men in the military get money for getting married and having kids...and they won't lose housing that they get from the military.....then again he could be just in love with you and want to marry you....you need to go with your gut on this one....and don't be worried to say no and have him leave in a bad mood..if he loves you he will wait for you....as you would be expected to also.....remember as much as i love our military men and women and i appreciated all they do for us ...they also signed up for the job they are doing...therefor they also knew you could be shipped off to war...you signed up for it..so don't worry about that part...since you live there already you should ask him how he would feel about being engaged while he is gone and having the marriage when he gets back...dont' rush this...military marriages are tough...and they seem easy at first but it's a big job...those stickers don't lie we military wifes have the toughest job we sit back and watch our men go while we take care of the kids and ourselves... |
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| hahahaha thats so crazy! you can't move in with somebody after a week of knowing them! what if he turns out to be a pyscho?! omg PLEASE don't marry him! i know lots of people believe in 'not wasting time' but i think he's being a little extreme... |
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| so i was up late last night and well i also thought of something else..if he is in military housing and has kids...then those kids must go to the mother while he gone, which means he can lose the house cause he's deploying ....so just take your time |
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