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| I have been seeing a guy for about a week now, and have slept with him twice. He is fabulously good looking, tanned and toned, not to mention very nice. He's pretty much everything you could want in a guy.
However, there is one huge problem that occurs when we have sex- he's crap at touching me 'down there'. and it hurts like a f****** B****! He's just too kinda, rough and over enthusiastic, its a total turn off! this is a total bummer as he is literally, gorgeous. I don't know what to do because I can't tell him he's not doing it right because it would be such an insult, but at the same time, it STILL hurts now, AS I AM WRITING THIS. does anybody else have a similar problem?!
My ex was sooooooooooooo much better! |
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| That would be a turn off to me also. If he is perfect in every way I would take the time to slow him down. When he is doing the rough thing, take his hand and show him softly what to do. I think he will get the hint. |
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on 2007-07-10 08:04:20 by jodie9 |
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| When I was around him, I would walk a lttle funny. When he asks you what's wrong, I would tell him that the other night was wonderful, but it was a little rough and you are paying a price for it today. |
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| While he his doing what he does, I would grab his hand and slow him down. This way he will get the hint with hurting his ego! :-) |
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| i would just subtlely slow him down. or just say slow down in a nice way that way he gets the hint nicely. |
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| Men are stupid, and I can say that because I am one. Just be honest..Be nice when you tell him. If he is half way normal he can handle it. And if he really cares about you, it won't be a big issue. |
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| Please tell me you are using some kind of protection with this guy. After dating for one week and sleeping with him, you really don't know his sexual history. Especially if he is a good looking as you say he is, he probably gets a lot of attention from other girls.
So take care of yourself!! Good Luck.. |
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| I agree, your guy might not have a lot of experience with touching you properly, but i would make sure you know where he has been before you do it again with him!! |
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| I dated a guy just like this and he was so good looking and I thought he would have a lot of experience, but I was wrong.. He was a little retarted when it came to sex. It was sort of cute!! |
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on 2007-07-11 21:08:10 by meme38 |
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| If you have an issue with him touching you, tell him to shave down the calluses if he wants to play with you clitoris. This way, sex ain't painful. |
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on 2007-07-12 11:15:06 by ejs323 |
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| I hear you sista! My new boyfriend has no idea what he is doing when he is attemping to "pleasure" me down there with his hands. It feels like he is rubbing broken glass on me. It is painful and certainly does not put me in the mood. I am trying to re-train him by moving his hand and telling him ( when he hits the right spot) that " that feels awesome, keep doing that....you are amazing!" Then during the day, randomly ask him if he could do that "thing" to me tonight? I'm sure he thinks he is the master! They can all be re-trained! |
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on 2007-07-16 07:49:32 by LaylaJ |
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| LaylaJ, you are to funny. I agree they can all be re-trained!! |
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| Has he gotten any better?? |
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