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| First, let me thank you all for your insight and replies. Since the plates were broken and food thrown all around my house, I have heard nothing from the bf. I broke down and sent him a few texts yesterday, with 3 mean responses. One said, "don't f-ing call me you psycho, do it again and I will get a restraining order" another said, "I am through with you" and the final one was " I am never talking to you again." Okay, how am I the psycho, I didn't throw anything around, break anything, curse anyone out. I just don't get how he can make me into the bad guy. I'm losing my mind. |
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| Wow, I think you are losing your mind because you have not heard from him. I would not try to contact him at all. He will probably come around. I don't know if it is the best thing that he will try to contact you again, but my advice is to forget about him and find someone who loves you more than life, and doesn't care is you look like Ashley Judd. |
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| I would consider myself lucky that he hasen't tried to contact you. But he should have, at least called to apoligize. |
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| Your boyfriend is not calling you because of your phone calls and the threat of a restaining order. I would lay low and give it some time for both of you to calm down and think about what happened rationally. Maybe you will accept his explanation or you might realize that you don't need this kind of craziness in your life!! |
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| Give him space and time. Do you still Love him?
If this your dilemma? |
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| You are not the crazy.. You are just hurting because he has not contacted you. He is probably scared of what your reaction to him will be. His silence is killing you. So do the same to him. Stop sending him messages. you and him have been together for several years. He will return, and it will be up to you to stay or go. Good Luck in your decision. |
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| No you are not crazy, he is for treating you with disrespect. Love yourself and don't put up with treatment like that. |
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| Okay, not to sound disrespectful or anything, but if I read your posts right you said your boyfriend is an alcoholic? People with an alcohol addiction are often completely irrational. (in my experience anyway) I think he will calm down and realize that he is acting crazy. The question is; do you really want him to come back and have to put up with this same type of behavior later on? |
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on 2007-06-27 01:41:59 by nikki |
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| I agree with Nikki, this a cycle that is going to continue. If he doesn't get help, you will be walking on egg shells always wondering when the next time his behavior will get out of control!! |
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on 2007-06-27 01:52:30 by sacha |
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| Please let us know what happens!! |
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| just dont have any contact with him. when he thinks ur over him and has realised u've moved on then he'll come back begging. i have been in a similar situation and i know what i'm talkin about. and when u lose all contact with him then u will see how much easier it is for u to forget about him. And they always come back to u when u dont want them..... |
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on 2007-06-27 15:07:02 by hana |
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| I so agree with hana. He will..Relax!! |
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on 2007-06-27 15:56:42 by lizzy |
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| Hana.. you couldn't be more right!! |
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| Love yourself and don't put up with this kind of treatment....you deserve better, move on....find the love of your life, he is out there somewhere..life is too dam short..too much drama, believe me I've been there...too long to--good luck. ;) |
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